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Secret Benefits Review—Truth About The Sugar Dating Website

Secret Benefits Review—Truth About The Sugar Dating Website

Secret Benefits seems to be a website that makes people feel more comfortable about online dating judging by its number of users and the overall number of reviews and feedback. What is the truth behind this popularity?

No need to risk testing it out personally, we’ve done it for you. We’ve bought Secret Benefits credits and found all the pros and cons of the site.

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Secret Benefits website overview

  • On average 19M of monthly visitors
  • 4.4 Stars on Trustpilot
  • Specialization on sugar daddy/sugar baby relationships
  • Most popular in the US, UK, and Canada, but also used around the world
  • Women dominate the site with a 60:40 ratio

What is Secret Benefits? According to our data, SecretBenefits.com is one of the top sugar daddy sites in the niche. It is catering to older men and women looking for sugar arrangements or people interested in open relationships. The website is free to join and is absolutely free for sugar babies, while sugar daddies have to pay for advanced features like messaging. Given the popularity, we decided to put the site to the test and see if it’s as good as numbers make it seem.

📈 Visits per month:24M
✅ Profile verification:Yes
❤️ Reply rate:95%
🌍 Most used in:US, UK, and Canada

Popular Secret Benefits profiles

Here is what we enjoyed on Secret Benefits

  • Free and easy sign-up—no need to be tech-savvy or have previous online dating experience
  • Active members who use the sugar dating site to find  younger women or generous men
  • Photo verification on sugar babies profiles—no catfishing on the site
  • An interesting feature of granting permission to secret albums with private photos
  • The site blog with interesting discussions

Cons of Secret Benefits website

  • No dedicated Secret Benefits app, but a mobile-friendly interface layout
  • No video chatting option
  • No wealth verification for sugar daddies

The website is good for

  • Experienced sugar babies and sugar daddies looking for new arrangements
  • New people who want to try sugar dating
  • Girls and guys who are looking for mutually beneficial relationships

Secret Benefits prices

  • Introductory—$59 for 100 credits
  • Elite—$169 for 500 credits
  • Best value—$289 for 1K credits

Sugar daddies registration process

Some of the Secret Benefits reviews are neutral, while others state that there are a lot of factors that Secret Benefits needs to improve on, like more proof on sugar daddy profiles. But there are many people that rave about the dating site and how it has introduced them to sugar dating.

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But to understand if the Secret Benefits profiles are real, we needed to contact at least several dozens of users. So, we started a registration process as we found out we can’t contact members without a personal account. Here is a quick overview of how it went.

  • Filling in the initial sign-up form has taken less than 3 minutes.
  • Name, age, skin color gender, email, and password fields turned out to be obligatory to fill and cannot be skipped.
  • Answering a questionnaire about you and your preferences took around 5 min, but we could skip them.
  • Adding a photo/photos is optional.
  • Sugar baby and sugar daddy profiles have photo verification, but it’s not obligatory.

Generally, our experience with the sign-up process was positive. Registration and creating profiles on Secret Benefits worked out smoothly and the user-friendliness of the site facilitated the process.

How to create a sugar daddy account to get the attention of popular sugar babies

  1. Take your time to fill in all fields during registration to get a detailed profile instantly.
  2. Add high-quality photos that show your best features and your luxury lifestyle.
  3. Be clear about what type of sugar baby you are looking for and set clear expectations from the arrangement.
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Costs for dating sugar babies

The financial aspect is one of the essential parts of sugar dating. Secret Benefits offers free standard membership to all users. But sugar babies can use the site for free, while sugar daddies need to pay. 

The good thing about the platform we can highlight is that it calculates the cost per credit in each offered package. So, each user including members of our team could buy credits for:

  • Introductory package—$0.59 per credit
  • Elite package—$0.34 per credit
  • Best value package—$0.29 per credit

The prices are average and similar to other sugar dating sites in the niche. Credits never expire, and we haven’t noticed any hidden fees. We paid just for the services we actually used. Also, we noticed and appreciated that Secret Benefits safe payment gateways include Visa, Mastercard, Discover, and JCB so we could safely spend the money to our experiment.

As we bought the Best Value package, we decided to test and analyze if the cost of the package is worth spending on and how long it will last. Read on and see what we spend our credits on and if we regret it.

Free features

Here is what features you can access and use free of charge:

  • Signing up and creating a profile
  • Getting verification
  • Browsing profiles on the dating platform
  • Search with various filters to get the best date
  • Adding to the list of favorites
  • Watching sugar baby photos
  • Hide My Profile feature (rare to sugar sites)
  • Seeing your Admirers, Visitors, and people who Viewed your profile on the site
  • Providing access to your secret album
  • Making changes to your sugar daddy profile
  • Changing password
  • Contacting the site’s support
  • Deleting personal account

The selection of free options is vast, but it’s not enough to start a sugar relationship. The list misses the most important factor—communication, and it has its price.

Secret Benefits subscription cost

Let’s take a moment to explore the costs and how much you need to spend on each service on the platform:

  • Send messages—10 credits unlock all conversation
  • Watch secret albums—10 credits to see hidden photos and videos of members
  • Photo Messaging—10 credits per photo
  • Secret browsing—10 credits for 24 hours

The amount of paid features is small, which is rare as most sugar daddy dating sites offer the majority of their features on a pay-to-use basis. The price per service is quite reasonable if compared to other platforms in the niche, such as Emily Dates and WhatsYourPrice.

How to search sugar babies on Secret Benefits?

After successful registration, we proceed with our Secret Benefits review by searching for girls we like and who will want to be our test sugar babies.


To start using Secret Benefits search we needed only to click on one button placed on the upper left corner of the homepage and, luckily, no credits. This feature is free for any sugar daddy or baby.

Search is divided into:

  • Recently active—girls who are online
  • Newest—any new sugar baby on Secret Benefits appears here

Both search options offer various filters that helps to narrow potential matches: we tried picking filters like ethnicity, age, body type, etc. There were 11 filters in total, and we could also add preferred distance to our location (5 to 200 miles).

Sugar babies profiles

We found a few options to open a sugar baby profile:

  • To click on a person in the search
  • To click on profiles of members in Matches
  • See new accounts when receiving messages or requests

Before our research, we expected a lot of communication with other users; but luckily, most members we’ve seen on the website had 70-90% filled profiles. That’s why we didn’t have to contact each person to find out if he/she was real: photos and bio told us a lot before chatting. 

Here’s what a regular user can learn from an SB’s profile on Secret Benefits:

  • Secret Benefits name
  • Expectations from the sugar daddy site
  • If person is online or offline
  • Location
  • Secret album with personal photos
  • Videos
  • Public photos
  • Bio with more info about what type of relationship a sugar baby seeks and more about her world
  • Age
  • Habits and appearance peculiarities (drinking piercings, body type, etc.)

Also, on each profile, there is a special chat tab, that you can use to send messages right away. Also if there is a verification mark, you can play a verification video for free. Profiles on the Secret Benefits website were more or less filled with essential information and had at least 5 public photos. Moreover, around 75% of the women are verified. During our Secret Benefits review, we haven’t seen fake profiles.

Secret Benefits communication services

The sugar daddy website doesn’t offer many ways of communication, which is a bit disappointing considering its pricing policy and popularity. And the only way a user can actually chat with members is through messaging. So, to chat with younger women we needed to click on a special field in a woman’s profile or to go to Messages inbox in the top bar of Secret Benefits to reply to incoming messages.

Even though chatting was almost the only way of communication, the service worked well. Members who are online reply promptly. But unfortunately, there are no options for video chatting built-in on Secret Benefits, there is only a photo exchange.

Special features

The website has limited communication options, but its special features are what attract millions of members monthly to join the sugar daddy site. All members can enjoy:

  1. Watching secret albums. Most younger women have secret albums with personal photos that are usually sexier. We couldn’t just pay 10 credits to watch all of them, we needed to make a request on a woman’s account. Only after we were granted permission from the sugar baby, we were able to see her pics.
  2. Matches. This feature shows Admirers, Visitors, Favorites, and people who Viewed your profile. The Admirers are women who added you to their list of favorites, Visitors are users who clicked on your profile and Favorites is your list of women you liked. And if you forget to add a sugar baby to Favorites, you can find her personal account at any point in the Viewed section of Matches.
  3. Hide My Profile feature. This feature is hard to notice, as we found it by chance by browsing the profile settings. If you don’t want to be visible to new members you can hide your profile from Search (search links profiles to users).
secretbenefits hide profile

User experience on Secret Benefits app and website

And the last part of our Secret Benefits review as a sugar daddy on the dating site was actually talking to women. For our testing, we chose 3 women with most interesting profiles (subjectively, of course).

Greensboro baby looking for a kind daddy

The first lady we found was a curly sugar baby from Greensboro. We saw her photo and immediately clicked on her profile to start communication. She was looking for a sweet and kind sugar daddy and was very flirtatious. It was a very comfortable message exchange with this sugar baby as the conversation unfolded very naturally. The sugar baby responded quickly and seemed interested. Also, this girl was quite straightforward in her desire to find generous men who can help her with education bills, which she didn’t indicate in her profile yet explained during our dialogue.

New London baby

This baby from New London actually was first to approach us, and we found her message in our inbox the day we registered on Secret Benefits. She also asked for access to our secret album, and we granted it, but she might have been disappointed to find just one topless photo. We thought that we needed to add such photos, but no one in our team confessed to having many. After we gave the access, our conversation stopped, as she probably recognized a photo we found on Pinterest.

Eldin sugar baby searching for new experiences

And last but not least sugar baby we met on the dating platform was blonde from Eldin. We had the best chat with this one. A girl was very funny and easy to talk to, and she told us that she was new to sugar dating and is looking for her first daddy. She was curious about how easy and drama-free sugar life is and heard about Secret Benefits from her college roommate. Actually, the majority of female users on Secret Benefits are college-aged, and 40% of all sugar babies are students or grads. We continued our chat on the dating site for a couple of days and even exchanged real photos a couple of times which were provided by one of our team members.

What do experts have to say about Secret Benefits?

The Secret Benefits dating site is an effective way to start sugar dating as the platform has millions of visitors. It provides users an opportunity to enjoy life with sugaring on a secured site full of like-minded people. The only downside to the site is that some users choose to keep their identity private.’

‘Secret Benefits looks user-friendly, has many older men looking for a baby to spoil, and many sugar babies looking for financial support. The only point that the site needs to improve is the number of communication ways; sadly, there is no video chat that could make dating a lot more enliven.’

Sugar daddy & sugar baby relationship: Tips on the start

  1. Fill in your personal account, as statistically, profiles with photos get more attention from sugar babies. But mind what data you share: read the Terms and Conditions. There can be limitations on what you can show in your pictures and what you shouldn’t.
  2. Message only the profiles with a verification mark and utilize search tools to filter by age, lifestyle, habits, etc.
  3. Request access to private photos before you go on the first date.
  4. Negotiate a clear agreement of your arrangement during the message stage to make your future sugar life easier.
  5. Start with a minimum subscription, but if you like the site, change to the Best value option, to get the most value out of the site subscription.


In our opinion and from our experience, Secret Benefits is worth the time of a regular sugar baby or sugar daddy. There is a large membership of potential partners on the site and all users are open to mutually beneficial relationships. Additionally, the credit system the site has is the most beneficial in terms of rational spending at the moment, if compared with websites that use recurring monthly fees. And Secret Benefits keep all user activities fun and discreet.


Does SecretBenefits have an app?

Unfortunately, SecretBenefits does not have a mobile app, but there is a mobile version of the site. Using both a computer and a smartphone is convenient.

Is SecretBenefits free for sugar babies?

SecretBenefits is entirely free for sugar babies. You can create a profile, chat, and add photos and pay nothing for it. In addition to being free for SBs, the site is also easy to use and has a large audience of successful men.

How do I cancel my SecretBenefits account?

It’s pretty easy to do; you only need to remember your password. Log in to your account on the site, go to Settings – Membership, and select the “Delete Account option.” The site will ask you to confirm your password, and your account will disappear from the site.

Sam Golden
Our writers and editors can’t work without relevant information and the latest data that show what trends in the sugar community are at the moment. An experienced theoretical psychologist, Sam Golden, is the one who finds information that is impossible to find and allows us to share only relevant content with you.
  1. So I must pay every time I message a girl? This sounds like Russian dating sites where I “pay-to-play” and the girl makes $$$ by talking to me. She’s not really interested in meeting me and I could be messaging a guy who is pretending to be the girl in the photo.

    • Hello! It all depends on your goals and how you evaluate sites. If pricing, user-friendly design, and strict user verification are important to you, then Secret Benefits is a good choice for you. In addition, you can find sugar deals of any type here, so we believe this site is one of the best in the sugar segment.

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